I quit a few months after I met them an I would eventually marry.
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Why Sex Talk On a First Date Is a Bad Idea
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Never Give a Man More Credit Then He’s Earned
Stop Accepting Bad Behavior From Men
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The Tell Tale Tatt
Lisa Says:
April 4th, 2014 at 11:29 am
I quit a few months after I met them an I would eventually marry.
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Jim Says:
April 18th, 2015 at 10:28 pm
Here’s a sad revelation: I eventually got married because of an ultimatum. I had been seeing (and eventually living with) this woman for 5 years and was told it’s the ring or the highway. I never felt she was the “love of my life” or my “soul mate”, but I did love her, we got along great, and I wanted children so it made sense at the time.
Fast-forward 8 years and I’m in the middle of a divorce. Was it wrong to marry someone I wasn’t “100% certain” was the one for me? I don’t know, I ended up with 2 awesome children and although divorce is horrific I feel that I (and my kids) will be much better when it’s over.
With respect to the smoking argument, my wife agreed to quit smoking when we had our first child. After the second child, 4 years later, she decided to start again because “I was stressing her out and making her crazy”. I hated it and pleaded with her to stop, for the sake of the kids, for her own health, for our intimacy, because of the added financial strain. I was accused of “trying to bring the kids into it”.
In the end she refused to quit, saying that “I knew she smoked” when we got married. It definitely isn’t THE reason we’re getting divorced, but finding ashes strewn around the car she uses to drive our children around was definitely one big nail in the coffin. Kill yourself if you need to, I may have to suck it up because of my choices, but when you put my kids at risk you’ve put yourself on shaky, and ultimately un-sound, ground.
I arrive at the Lower East Side bar about an hour into the soiree. By then, everyone there had consumed at least one cocktail and had loosened up. I decided to use the knowledge I’d gleaned from a Whiskey tasting a few weeks before and ordered a finger’s worth of Johnnie Walker on the rocks. Normally, I’d order a Merlot and nurse it, but it was a holiday weekend and I’d given myself permission to slack off.
Is He Interested or Just An Attention Whore?
Never Give a Man More Credit Then He’s Earned
Stop Accepting Bad Behavior From Men
When Do You Ask A Guy If Things Are Serious?
Is She Doomed To End Up Alone?
Why The “Hot” People In This Article Aren’t Worth Dating
When You Get Dumped Sometimes You’re To Blame, Too
Never Double Down On A Guy Who Can’t Guarantee He’ll Stick Around
How To Deal With The Push Pull Guy
Who Has More Luck Online – Men or Women?
The Tell Tale Tatt
Lisa Says:
April 4th, 2014 at 11:29 am
I quit a few months after I met them an I would eventually marry.
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Jim Says:
April 18th, 2015 at 10:28 pm
Here’s a sad revelation: I eventually got married because of an ultimatum. I had been seeing (and eventually living with) this woman for 5 years and was told it’s the ring or the highway. I never felt she was the “love of my life” or my “soul mate”, but I did love her, we got along great, and I wanted children so it made sense at the time.
Fast-forward 8 years and I’m in the middle of a divorce. Was it wrong to marry someone I wasn’t “100% certain” was the one for me? I don’t know, I ended up with 2 awesome children and although divorce is horrific I feel that I (and my kids) will be much better when it’s over.
With respect to the smoking argument, my wife agreed to quit smoking when we had our first child. After the second child, 4 years later, she decided to start again because “I was stressing her out and making her crazy”. I hated it and pleaded with her to stop, for the sake of the kids, for her own health, for our intimacy, because of the added financial strain. I was accused of “trying to bring the kids into it”.
In the end she refused to quit, saying that “I knew she smoked” when we got married. It definitely isn’t THE reason we’re getting divorced, but finding ashes strewn around the car she uses to drive our children around was definitely one big nail in the coffin. Kill yourself if you need to, I may have to suck it up because of my choices, but when you put my kids at risk you’ve put yourself on shaky, and ultimately un-sound, ground.
I arrive at the Lower East Side bar about an hour into the soiree. By then, everyone there had consumed at least one cocktail and had loosened up. I decided to use the knowledge I’d gleaned from a Whiskey tasting a few weeks before and ordered a finger’s worth of Johnnie Walker on the rocks. Normally, I’d order a Merlot and nurse it, but it was a holiday weekend and I’d given myself permission to slack off.
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