When Your Marriage Feels Lonely: Rebuilding Intimacy and Connection.
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He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex
He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat
He Lost Interest in Our Marriage
Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job
He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I'm Sick of It
Commitment Jitters
Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance
Bi Bi Love
Dealing With Your Partner’s Bedroom Confessions
Can His Squalor Be Squelched?
Asunder Down Under
Conquering Long Distance Dating
Coveting a Coworker
Sorry…. but having a pet, a house, a job, long-term friendships, and financial independence…ONLY shows that one is capable of committing to: an animal, house/mortgage, an employer, friends and their bank account. None of which means they will be a good boyfriend/husband or even be willing to take on that role at all.
Think about it: we’ve all known a ton of guys who fit this profile: mid-30s, athletic (has a dog that he goes running with), successful man, driven at his job (so he doesn’t job-hop) and makes good money (doesn’t need parental help) and invests that into the purchase of an apt/coop/condo/house, has the same friends that he met in high school and his college fraternity…has a different girl every night from when he is 25 until…as long as he still looks hot. He has had little to no relationships and has to desire to change that. But he hits every point on your list (as for the sycophants and emotional maturity, no one can know that until they get to know them but on paper he hits all your points)
We’ve all known this guy, probably at least 100 of them. And in NYC they are a dime a dozen. I’d almost venture to say that they are more the norm than not (although owning is tough but the same rental apt for 10 yrs is as good as owning in NYC as far as showing commitment…not bailing every time they raise the rent).
I am not saying that the guy who commits is a great guy or even a good guy. He could have numerous multi-year relationships under his belt but still be a shitbag and an awful, cheating, abusive boyfriend. Or maybe he’s just a lame, mediocre, ambivalent guy who tends to take his women for granted. Or maybe he’s actually a great boyfriend.
However, if all we are judging is one’s ability to commit (not their likelihood of being a good partner), then Mr. Shitbag does qualify as being more likely to commit. Although, any sane woman should run from him away as fast as she can.
He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat
He Lost Interest in Our Marriage
Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job
He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I'm Sick of It
Commitment Jitters
Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance
Bi Bi Love
Dealing With Your Partner’s Bedroom Confessions
Can His Squalor Be Squelched?
Asunder Down Under
Conquering Long Distance Dating
Coveting a Coworker
Sorry…. but having a pet, a house, a job, long-term friendships, and financial independence…ONLY shows that one is capable of committing to: an animal, house/mortgage, an employer, friends and their bank account. None of which means they will be a good boyfriend/husband or even be willing to take on that role at all.
Think about it: we’ve all known a ton of guys who fit this profile: mid-30s, athletic (has a dog that he goes running with), successful man, driven at his job (so he doesn’t job-hop) and makes good money (doesn’t need parental help) and invests that into the purchase of an apt/coop/condo/house, has the same friends that he met in high school and his college fraternity…has a different girl every night from when he is 25 until…as long as he still looks hot. He has had little to no relationships and has to desire to change that. But he hits every point on your list (as for the sycophants and emotional maturity, no one can know that until they get to know them but on paper he hits all your points)
We’ve all known this guy, probably at least 100 of them. And in NYC they are a dime a dozen. I’d almost venture to say that they are more the norm than not (although owning is tough but the same rental apt for 10 yrs is as good as owning in NYC as far as showing commitment…not bailing every time they raise the rent).
I am not saying that the guy who commits is a great guy or even a good guy. He could have numerous multi-year relationships under his belt but still be a shitbag and an awful, cheating, abusive boyfriend. Or maybe he’s just a lame, mediocre, ambivalent guy who tends to take his women for granted. Or maybe he’s actually a great boyfriend.
However, if all we are judging is one’s ability to commit (not their likelihood of being a good partner), then Mr. Shitbag does qualify as being more likely to commit. Although, any sane woman should run from him away as fast as she can.
Début de l'événement
18.03.2023
Fin de l'événement
18.03.2023