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The guy went from being an all-star to playing a diminished role in order to help his team win a championship. That\u2019s what women want from a husband. They don\u2019t need the guy who\u2019s obsessed with being the \u201cstar of the show\u201d or the center of attention all the time. What they need is the man who knows how to step up when necessary, but can also chill in the background and let his wife take the lead when the situation calls for it. It\u2019s the difference between being a solo act and part of a team. And believe me, if you can rock the \u0022I\u2019m in it for the team\u0022 mentality, you\u2019re more likely to snag a ring than a guy who\u2019s too busy trying to be the next big thing on Instagram.\n\nOf course, there are a ton of other qualities that play into the \u201chusband material\u201d discussion\u2014things like loyalty, emotional availability, and, let\u2019s be real, not looking like a total mess after a bad day. But if you don\u2019t nail the basics\u2014morning competence, the ability to stay unfussy, and not being obsessed with your own shine\u2014you\u2019re probably not making the list.\n\nSo, next time you\u0027re wondering why your \u201chusband potential\u201d is being questioned, take a good look in the mirror. If you\u2019re still struggling with your wardrobe, or you think your bachelor pad is a good enough substitute for a real home, you\u2019ve got a lot of work to do. Until then, maybe dial back the whole \u201cshe\u2019ll just have to love me for who I am\u201d approach. A woman will love you, but only if you\u0027re, you know, capable of being a functioning adult who knows how to handle the basics.\n\nAnd remember, fellas: no woman\u2019s going to want to spend the rest of her life with a guy who\u2019s still trying to figure out how to operate a dishwasher.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-11-21","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-11-21","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheHusbandList","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-21 17:32:35","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-21 17:32:35","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-11-21\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-11-21\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheHusbandList\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-21 17:32:35\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-21 17:32:35\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?TheHusbandList"},"KeepingThePeaceHilariousSolutionsToEvery":{"bf_titre":"Keeping the Peace: Hilarious Solutions to Everyday Relationship Annoyances","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eG27Cn With Men Is EVERYTHING Always Just Really About Sex?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CNwSId Interracial Dating: A Day in Detroit\u0027s Gaze]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eIWEL0 When Being Nice Sabotages Your Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eHYGvd The Art of Compromise in Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Zidnk7 What Dating Game Says About Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eArtSc The Unspoken Rules of Dating Reciprocity]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eOAmrC Dating and The Church]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40Z2RPU Faithful Dating in Modern Times]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eC1Dgx Can You Really Be a Relationship Expert?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ZIRfY Why All Relationship Advice Is Bullsh*t]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iduUBx Why Finding The \u201cRight One\u201d Is All About Luck]]\n\n\nHuh? What the f*ck does that mean? Why would you do that. I shut my service off in June and you ran me a tab for July anyway? Why does this make sense. Actually, who gives a f*ck, could you please take care of it.\n\nHer reply? Well, sir, I think you should go ahead and pay the bill and IF WE OWE YOU A REFUND, WE\u2019LL SEND IT TO YOU.\n\nScrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.\n\nSo let me get this right. You want me to pay for service that I didn\u2019t use, at a place I no longer live, for an account that I shut down over a month ago\u2026and IF YOU OWE ME A REFUND, YOU\u2019LL SEND IT TO ME??? This makes sense to you?\n\nHer: Sir, I realize it may sound a little odd, but that\u2019s my recommendation.\n\nMe: Ma\u2019am, I need you to say that out loud to me. What you just told me to do. I need you to say it, in that order THEN tell me it makes sense coming from your mouth. You see where I closed the account right?\n\nHer: Yes sir, and I understand, but that\u2019s the only way to avoid going to collection.\n\nMe: (at this point, I\u2019ve reached boiling point, extinction level event) You\u2019re threatening my credit right now when you all are the ones who have TOTALLY screwed up here? And you want me to wait for a refund? Wait\u2026you all ALREADY OWE me a refund on this account. Can you see it?\n\nThis is August remember, still short of my 6-8 week timeframe, but August.\n\nHer: No sir, it shows here that you owe us $400.\n\nMe: Yo, there is no way in f*ck I\u2019m paying that money when YOU have proof in your system that I closed the account.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-11-22","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-11-22","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"KeepingThePeaceHilariousSolutionsToEvery","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-22 17:24:26","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-22 17:24:26","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-11-22\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-11-22\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022KeepingThePeaceHilariousSolutionsToEvery\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-22 17:24:26\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-22 17:24:26\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?KeepingThePeaceHilariousSolutionsToEvery"},"NavigatingHolidayRomancesWithConfidenceAnd":{"bf_titre":"Navigating Holiday Romances with Confidence and Care","bf_description":"\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4irj6eW Do I Belong With You or Do You Own Me?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iHJtxt Is Jealousy a Human Survival Mechanism?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZKlq9m What is Fidelity?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Bi1GRh Aren\u2019t Open Relationships All About Sex?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iwSB7Z So, You Found Out He\u2019s Lying\u2026]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49rPf1V What To Do With a Badly Behaving Lover?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZM0cIr Girls Runs The World?!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49uCa7Q The One Topic Men And Women Never Agree On]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZIClt5 How To Date A Virgin]]\n\n\nThe fact that LSB was part of some \u2018Rules Sisterhood\u2019, yet still has a distinct lack of knowledge about the differences between male and female seduction triggers is a huge advertisement of failure of \u2018The Rules\u2019.\n\nIn fact, a man who knows even 5% of what Game has to offer internalized the first rule : \u201cDon\u2019t supplicate\/be needy\u201d. This effectively neutralizes any effectiveness that \u2018The Rules\u2019 might have.\n\nThe Rules are only effective against lesser Betas of ZERO skill, who women are not attracted to anyway. The Rules will do absolutely nothing to help a woman below a 7 in looks snag an alpha.\n\n\nThe Fifth Horseman PERMALINK\nOctober 19, 2009 9:30 pm\nYou decide whether you want an equal-status man (isogamy) or a higher-status man (hypergamy).\nIf you want the equal-status man, pick from the men who\u2019ll follow your little rules.\nIf you want the higher-status man, YOU must follow HIS rules, and be on HIS schedule.\n\nAgain, seconding (or thirded).\n\nRemember that LSB comes from a conservative Indian upbringing, where her father greatly restricts what she can do, and filters out guys who have other options and thus don\u2019t have to take his abuse. Thus, her direct experience with men is limited (not that white chicks who have been dating since 14 know much either).\n\nLSB thinks that there is some skillset she can develop to get a guy higher than her league. THERE-IS-NOT.\n\nPlus, since you will only be able to marry a man that your father gives a stamp of approval on, and he will filter for Beta provider bonafides, not for \u2018gina tingle\/alpha\u2019 bonafides, you are virtually guaranteed to be married to a man who will make a good husband, but for whom you will have zero attraction.\n\nSo why do you bother with \u2018The Rules\u2019, which does not even work for promiscuous, hypergamous white women?\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-12-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-12-10","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"NavigatingHolidayRomancesWithConfidenceAnd","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-10 11:07:00","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-10 11:07:00","user":"49.228.249.194","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-12-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-12-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022NavigatingHolidayRomancesWithConfidenceAnd\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-10 11:07:00\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-10 11:07:00\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?NavigatingHolidayRomancesWithConfidenceAnd"},"20EmbarrassingSexQuestionsWeAllAskInOu":{"bf_titre":"20 Embarrassing Sex Questions We All Ask (In Our Heads)","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49yWLYK How Pocket-Dialing Can C*ckblock You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g8Sg9R Attack of The Killer Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ORrrL8 How To Deal With A Psycho Ex During The Holidays]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DfapnV Attention Mongers Crybabies and Dramaheads]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DadqpB 25 Signals You\u0027re Not Ready For a Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gcYLIz 5 Skills Every Man And Woman Should Master]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49z3q5i Can Sex Be A Laughing Matter?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gbh8xB The Sh*t Women Say That Piss Off Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49BHSF9 Dating a Jersey Shore Fan]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gaO7lT Dealing With Exes on Valentine\u2019s Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OXBtdG A Decent Girl For a Nice Guy]]\n\nWhen it comes to talking about sex, we can often be too embarrassed to ask questions at the risk of sounding weird \u2013 or like full-fledged perverts. Regardless of how many times we \u2018do it\u2019, there are always questions that manage to go by unanswered. From the innocent to the downright dirty, read on for a list of some of the most common (yet unspoken of) questions surrounding the topic of sex.\n\n1. How come alcohol can make me have sex and at other times, leave me too drunk to have sex at all?\n\n2. Why are so many men afraid of sex toys yet women just laugh at the sight of a blow-up doll?\n\n3. What is up with men obsessing over anal sex? Is it really that special?\n\n4. Why do people make such a big deal about the size of a man\u2019s penis when most women can\u2019t orgasm through vaginal sex?\n\n5. What killed the acceptance of a full bush?\n\n6. Why do babies come out of the same place where they were conceived?\n\n7. Why do vaginas smell once in awhile?\n\n8. What exactly does online sex smell like?\n\n9. Why do some guys insist on pushing girl\u2019s heads down when they\u2019re perfuming oral sex?\n\n10. Why do some people chose spit over lube?\n\n11. Why is it that having sex with hot people doesn\u2019t necessarily make for good sex?\n\n12. If foreplay is more stimulation than regular sex, why even bother?\n\n13. Why do men like to cum on women\u2019s faces and breasts?\n\n14. What\u2019s the purpose of penis rings exactly?\n\n15. Why are men more comfortable with getting naked than women?\n\n16. Do orgasms increase women\u2019s chances of getting pregnant?\n\n17. How many calories am I consuming if I swallow after sex?\n\n18. What\u2019s the nutritional value in sperm?\n\n19. How does a man\u2019s sperm differ from women\u2019s nether fluids?\n\n20. In matters of gay sex; what happens to a man\u2019s sperm inside another man\u2019s body?","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-12-13","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-12-13","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"20EmbarrassingSexQuestionsWeAllAskInOu","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-13 10:56:15","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-13 10:56:16","user":"49.228.251.74","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-12-13\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-12-13\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u002220EmbarrassingSexQuestionsWeAllAskInOu\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 10:56:15\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 10:56:16\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?20EmbarrassingSexQuestionsWeAllAskInOu"},"TheJourneyFromSelfLoveToFindingLastingL":{"bf_titre":"The Journey from Self-Love to Finding Lasting Love","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OVfuEg The 5 Warning Signs Of A Bad Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41s1rh6 Stop Comparing Us To Aidan From Sex And The City!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OTcqc0 The Truth About Women\u2019s Dating Blogs]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Bt7eZ4 Is Bradley Cooper The Male Carrie Bradshaw?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41yTIOs My Low-Maintenance Dream Girl Wishlist]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OR4MyG The Little Things Women Do That Turn Men On]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41wpnju Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OVzA1k Why Your Dating Standards Start with You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZQKXOp The Backlash of Fornication for Single Christians]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41u4JQP Learn to Trust God\u2019s Warnings in Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BrYbaQ 10 Qualities Saved Sisters Seek in a Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41DnZLP Overcoming Dating Angst as a Christian]]\n\nMy mom was very loving with my dad and very much the good little housewife she set a good example there. Her abusiveness was more in her jealousy of her daughters (mostly me)for his affection \u2013 it was weird.\n\nI have been a somewhat screwed up because of all this but it\u2019s been helpful the last few years to face what my growing up years were like and adding them up to the place I\u2019d arrived at in lie.\n\nI wrote a post on my blog way back in May which described some of the problems with my mom.\n\nGreat post Bhetti!\n\n\nHux PERMALINK\nOctober 22, 2009 1:24 am\nParents\u2019 divorce: check. When I was 3.\n\nBrother\u2019s shoplifting: no, but he did go to jail for drug trafficking.\n\nDo girls typically look at a guy\u2019s family like guys look at girls\u2019 families?\n\n\naoefe PERMALINK\nOctober 22, 2009 1:34 am\nHux I look at a guy\u2019s relationship with his family. I don\u2019t look at his mom so much but at the relationship he has with her. Does he speak highly of her? Or is he mommy\u2019s little boy and not growed up yet? I look at their lifestyle to see how he was brought up and what values he was surrounded by more than any personality characteristic.\n\n\nThe Fifth Horseman PERMALINK\nOctober 22, 2009 4:19 am\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-17","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-17","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheJourneyFromSelfLoveToFindingLastingL","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-17 10:24:01","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-17 10:24:01","user":"184.22.250.22","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-12-17\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-12-17\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheJourneyFromSelfLoveToFindingLastingL\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-17 10:24:01\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-17 10:24:01\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?TheJourneyFromSelfLoveToFindingLastingL"},"SmartIndependentAndAloneChallengesWomen":{"bf_titre":"Smart, Independent, and Alone? Challenges Women Face in Dating","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DyCtCX Questioning Dating Perferences]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a0qKcm Jaded About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49ZPRfm Endless Evidence Gathering]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49W3HiX Snooping on a Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a6mcRS Interracial Dating And Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DCWdFv Why Do You Want to Be in a Relationship?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BNvt4w Being Really Smart Can Work Against A Woman]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49YqEBT Flexibility in Modern Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DDjFlQ \u0022Till Death Do Us Part\u0022]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a0bE6H Assembly Line of Hot]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a1kfWz The Art of Selective Truths in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gASzdA Warning Signs on the First Date]]\n\nAny revolutionary vision worth a grain of salt must be one in which caring for one\u0027s self is not pitted against caring for the world. How to do this in a new way, one that isn\u0027t about advocating for the naval gazing of the highly privileged, or the current notion of self care as a solely private function - I don\u0027t know exactly. But I do know that the separation between self and other has been exaggerated by the modern, capitalist world, so much so that it\u0027s difficult for those of us born and bred in this culture to move beyond imagining another way of being together, and working together. Lots of visions, but mostly visions that we repeatedly chop off at the feet through our capitalized habits.\n\nAnd so, in the end, I think it\u0027s important to have some compassion for where we are at. For all the ways in which members of different groups are struggling, and so often failing, to come together to resist and break down the oppressive structures that be, and to build something new, and more life affirming. It\u0027s heartbreaking at times how much we tend to step on each others\u0027 feet and keep the wheels of oppression turning, even amongst folks who are so motivated to not perpetuate that very thing. But it\u0027s what people do when they haven\u0027t figured out another way.\n\nIn other words, we aren\u0027t going to get to something called \u0022community care\u0022 or a culture of caring for each other as the norm without going through a lot of mud. And being ok with the fact that sometimes, it\u0027s too much to take even one more ounce of that mud under our consideration for a day, week, month, or even year at a time. The revolution must be something that moves beyond anything we can think up. It has to include the whole works, and probably needs to defy most of our expectations and desires, in order to be that which our hearts truly long for.\n\nThere has been some pretty intense discussion on this post about a relationship between a man nearly 20 years older than his now fiance. Some of it has been about the age difference. Some of it about the way in which the man waffled about his desire to have children again. There have been several other related issues that have been brought up as well, and I\u0027d invite people to read through the comments section - it\u0027s a pretty rich discussion.\n\nOne comment in particular, by a guy named Allen, struck me as really important.\n\nWe all go through stages of being ready or not ready for love. It is a matter of finding a good match and when both are ready.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SmartIndependentAndAloneChallengesWomen","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:34:51","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:34:51","user":"184.22.251.227","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SmartIndependentAndAloneChallengesWomen\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:34:51\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:34:51\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?SmartIndependentAndAloneChallengesWomen"},"MenAreTheNewWomen":{"bf_titre":"Men Are The New Women","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a8WpIB An Ode to Emily]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PqnoFX More Than Meets The Eyes]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ohyLQ Should I Tell Her How I Feel?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4aeydEU The Play Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9vj3X Dogs, Cats, and the Art of Dating: Lessons from the Cab Ride]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4aofffb The Colorado Connection That Could Never Be]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PqnoWt When Love Feels Like a DIY Project: The Fixer-Upper Dilemma]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DG5ug2 Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a5OThE Should You Settle?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a3xgPz Is There Hope For The Gender Gap?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Poz1x5 Cheating is a Cop Out]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a5TuQU The Dance of Second Chances]]\n\n\u201cNobody knows what the hell they\u2019re supposed to be doing anymore.\u201d\n- Jennifer Armstrong\n\n\u201cI never let myself develop a set of balls. Or rather society stifled my balls. \u2026 Neutered; that\u2019s how society prefers its men today.\u201d\n- Paresh Kumar\n\n\nAre Men the new Women? Are more and more men taking on traditionally feminine gender roles?\n\nThe phrase \u201cMen are the New Women\u201d comes from Leah, the founder of the streetwear designer label Married to the MOB (Most Official Bitches). In an interview, she explains what that phrase means. Basically: some men are now wusses.\n\nSo is it true? Men taking on traditionally feminine gender roles and becoming wusses?\n\nI asked a few friends and looked online for some opinions. Here\u2019\u2019s what I gathered:\n\n\u201cOMG they totally are! All the guys I\u201dve been meeting are SUCH wusses!\u201d - SW\n\u201cI don\u201dt know about all guys, but [my friend] is a hot stud AND such a girl at the same time. He even called once to talk about his feelings and how we can communicate better.\u201d - NK\n\u201cJust look at my gay boyfriend for your answer. What do you think?\u201d - LE\n\u201cMaybe it\u2019\u2019s the whole metrosexual craze that\u2019\u2019s turning men into women. Personally, I love it. Sensitive men are so much better than the deadbeats I\u201dve been dating.\u201d - AB\n\u201cIf you mean something like metros, ugh, I can\u201dt stand that. Give me a real man any day.\u201d - EL\n\u201cYup, some guys are definitely turning into pussies now. Makes the rest of us real men that much more desirable to women, if you ask me. That\u2019\u2019s why I\u201dve got so many dates nowadays.\u201d - BW\n\u201cI don\u201dt want to have to ask a guy out. I like it when a guy asks me out. It shows\u2026 I don\u201dt know\u2026 It shows that he\u2019\u2019s a man.\u201d - LL\n\u201cMore and more guys are talking about commitment, biological clocks, and\u2014ugh\u2014their feelings.\u201d - JA\n\u201cIn fact, not so long ago, I actually heard a boy tell me, \u201dNot tonight, I have a headache.\u201d Seriously? SERIOUSLY? You\u2019re taking this away from us?\u201d - EM\n\u201cThe new fall season [of TV] shrinks the number of belittling stereotypes [that men] may occupy to just two: cads or dads.\u201d - AS\n\u201cIn China, Shanghai men are well known as \u201dPa Lao Po\u201d, which means \u201dafraid of wives\u201d. Shanghai women are the dominant ones in the family.\u201d - 8A\nSounds like a resounding YES from the sources I\u201dve found. Men certainly are the new women - at least some of them. What do you think?","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-01-08","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-01-08","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"MenAreTheNewWomen","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-08 08:58:08","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-08 08:58:08","user":"184.22.251.227","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-01-08\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-01-08\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022MenAreTheNewWomen\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-08 08:58:08\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-08 08:58:08\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?MenAreTheNewWomen"},"WhyMyFriendshipBraceletMeansSoMuchToMe":{"bf_titre":"Why My Friendship Bracelet Means So Much To Me","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a8syQs Why Is Self-Esteem Important For Dating?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h6OoWZ Top Free and Paid Online Dating Websites]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ad0QC7 Seizing New Dating Opportunities]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WfL6sn The Perfect Movie Date at Home]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h3rJe2 Single Men Don\u2019t Have Body Image Issues]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hbd1lv What Makes a Good Man or a Good Woman?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h6Opdv Equating \u2018Sexuality\u2019 with Male Sexuality]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Wec7MR Why in the World Would I Ever Get Married?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ac3OqG How Jealousy Can Work For Us]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a7Gf2h The Catalano Generation is Revolutionizing Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9mFTc Mexico City\u0027s Short-Term Marriage Proposal]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DKfZPt Even in Relationship You\u2019re All Alone]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9jgnw I Lack the Commitment Gene]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DKfUeD Stop Crying and Be a Man]]\n\nI\u2019ll take a homemade gift over a store-bought one any day of the week.\nI was given a friendship bracelet the other day by a close friend who is in town for a visit. She\u2019s someone I rarely keep in contact with, but someone who I know is always there for me if I need it. I don\u2019t recall the last time I was given a friendship bracelet that someone actually made themselves. In any case, I know that I was never able to fully appreciate what it meant in the past.\n\nAs she tied the four-coloured bracelet on my left wrist, I thought about her thinking of me. Her thinking of me and sitting down with these pieces of string, meticulously twining them together to produce this token of friendship. It made me feel good. This idea that someone you may or may not be thinking of (maybe haven\u2019t even thought of them in a very long time) is hundreds of miles away thinking of you and making something tangible to express it.\n\nThe sentiment floors me.\n\nTo accord with this tradition, the giver must tie the bracelet on the arm of the receiver and it must be left to fall off naturally.\nI\u2019ve never really understood what a friendship bracelet is; where they came from. Wikipedia tells me that it\u2019s a custom that has its roots in Native American culture, specifically the Central American tradition. To accord with this tradition, the giver must tie the bracelet on the arm of the receiver and it must be left to fall off naturally.\n\nRemoving the bracelet before this happens signals that the friendship has taken a turn for the worst. The article also described a variation on the tradition, where the receiver makes a wish when given it, and when the bracelet falls off the wish will come true.\n\nI think maybe my favourite aspect of these is that it\u2019s a global custom; there are many cultures that observe this practice. When my ex-wife and I were in Oaxaca, Mexico last year she bought me one made by the indigenous people in the area. Perhaps understandably, I took it off while we were going through our break-up. I\u2019m glad I kept it though, because as our friendship has strengthened I feel it\u2019s something that can again tie us together.\n\nI only wish she were here to tie it back on. ","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-10","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhyMyFriendshipBraceletMeansSoMuchToMe","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-10 10:30:58","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-10 10:30:58","user":"49.228.248.12","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhyMyFriendshipBraceletMeansSoMuchToMe\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-10 10:30:58\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-10 10:30:58\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?WhyMyFriendshipBraceletMeansSoMuchToMe"},"HowToBecomeAnOnlineDatingPro":{"bf_titre":"How to Become an Online Dating Pro","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/409zNDg A Relationship Evolved (and Happy Birthday To My Ex)]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40bPOst The Unforgettable First Kiss]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PAH1LA Jealousy Versus Envy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WiZNuP Love Addict: The Pregnancy Dilemma]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ivhCi How Do You Help Someone Who Doesn\u2019t Want Help?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DX2xHZ Most Radical Relationship Books On the Market]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40esfPF We Hold Ourselves Back]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ivdCy What Happens When You Actually In Relationship??]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/407JTV2 Is a Same-Sex Encounter Important in Living Holistically?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PDYJ0E You\u2019re a Selfish Bitch and That\u2019s Why You\u2019re Not Married]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40bPOIZ Learning How to Love Yourself]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cb2Det Love Addict: Writing the Personal]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PBlPFw How Do You Learn to Let Go?]]\n\nOf the many different types of game, Online Game (dating) is unique because it requires a significant amount of preparation and upkeep in order to be successful. Here are some of the required skills, qualities, and methods that you should strive to achieve and master:\n\nExcellent Grammar \u0026amp; Spelling\nHigh Quality, Exotic, and\/or Unique \u0026amp; Interesting Photos\nAverage or Above in Physical Looks* (face) and Physique (body)\nWell-written, Stand-Out, Cool, Interesting, Funny, Exciting, and\/or Mysterious Profile\nGreat Logistics (99% of encounters are dates w\/ the occasional \u201cbang-over\u201d)\nClever, Funny, Pre-Tailored Opener or Creative, Custom Stand-Out Opener\nDate Game (communication\/escalation\/seduction\/closing skill)\nExcellent Screening Ability \u0026amp; Strategy to determine the type of girls you\u2019re seeking\nAbility to Weed Out Potential Flakes, Attention Whores, Secret Internet Fatties, and Prudes\nOnline Communication Skills (witty banter, intelligence, travel experience, articulating stories, etc.)\nBalance between cocky\/funny and over-the-top asshole (messaging, profile, and in-person)\nAbility to meet (or exceed) women\u2019s online perceptions of you in-person\n*Obviously this is largely out of your control\u2026 but there are things you can do to tweak your look (style, hair, etc.).\nThe pool of women to choose from is constantly changing, as thousands of people enter and exit the online dating world everyday. Just don\u2019t expect amazing results overnight. Like anything, it won\u2019t be easy and takes a lot of practice to master. Luckily, the learning curve is significantly reduced when you know what needs to be done.\n\nLearn what works, test out different profile styles and pictures, and keep tweaking until you figure out what gives you the best results. Regular game will take you the rest of the way.\n\nOf course, I\u2019ll be covering all of these topics and more in my online game book, slated for release sometime next year.\n\nGood luck.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-16","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-16","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"HowToBecomeAnOnlineDatingPro","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-16 10:43:54","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-16 10:43:54","user":"49.228.248.12","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-16\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-16\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022HowToBecomeAnOnlineDatingPro\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 10:43:54\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 10:43:54\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?HowToBecomeAnOnlineDatingPro"},"YourStoriesFacingStds":{"bf_titre":"Your Stories: Facing STDs","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jsGp8s When Do You Walk Away]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40HiScz It Is All Facebook\u2019s Fault\u2026]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cglp4i How To Be Single at Your 10 Year Reunion]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4au1kUw Are One Night Stands Bad?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4atLN7j The Truth About Free Dating Sites]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jBE7nQ Writing Good Loveawake.com Emails]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4au87gZ Taking it Slow vs Taking it Nowhere]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40HQffC 26 Things I\u2019ve Learned About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40Ht4SB Being Selfish in A Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40EpmJo Signs of a Douchebag]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40JgF0c Rules for a Skype Date]]\n\nTalking about STDs is never easy. But having the discussion may be necessary not only for your health, but the health of your relationships and family.\nSexually transmitted diseases impact more than just the physical body of the person who contracts one. They impact self-esteem and self-worth, relationships, and can cause stress, anxiety, and sometimes extreme health scares.\n\nWe decided to take a look at STDs during the month of March because even though a majority of people will experience some form of a sexually transmitted disease during their lifetime, they are very much stigmatized. This is particularly true for those that \u201cshow themselves\u201d \u2013 such as genital warts, which come from the most common STD, HPV.\n\nThe more that we talk about the reality of STDs, the less stigma that will remain. And the more we are open with ourselves and our partners about these uncomfortable subjects, the more we unearth other issues lurking under the surface.\n\nHere are our two favorite pieces that were submitted for this month\u2019s topic. Thanks to everyone who submitted their story:\n\nAn STD Affair\n\nA couple in their mid-forties with two children came to me with some very typical issues at their stage of married life. She wanted to improve their communication and was seeking more attentiveness from her husband. He was working long hours and under much pressure at the office; he was looking for some downtime at home, and less scheduled social activities by his wife.\n\nWe began our work on these issues. After several sessions, I received a call from the wife asking for an individual session. In that session, in which she was in tears throughout, she told me about a recent visit to her gynecologist when she learned she had an STD. It had to have been passed on from her husband. She was truly in shock and disbelief and didn\u2019t know how she should proceed with this information.\n\nWe determined that it would be best for her to sit down calmly with her husband that evening. She would explain her doctor\u2019s appointment, and allow him to respond and \u2018share\u2019 how this could have happened. Much to her surprise, he broke down immediately, crying.\n\nHe said that he had been wanting to tell her about an affair and could only assume that that was how she had contracted an STD. The affair was short-lived, three months, and had ended several months before.\n\nHe said that he had been wanting to tell her about an affair.\nDuring the next session, and many more, we worked through all the kind of issues that surrounded such an affair. The husband was desperate that this behavior not ruin his marriage and family, and was eager to do whatever would help his wife and his marriage.\n\nHe was someone who found it quite difficult to have lived with a lie, and now to live with the emotional and physical pain he had caused his wife. He was truly regretful.\n\nIn this case, an STD actually allowed for all the truth to be out on the table, probably more quickly than might otherwise have happened. It forced the couple to deal head-on with the underlying issues of what had occurred in their marriage. They worked for a year in therapy and are one of those fortunate couples who feel that they are now more connected than ever before.\n\n- Sharon Gilchrest O\u2019Neill, Ed.S., LMFT, USA\nA Short Guide to a Happy Marriage\n\nBad News Pap\n\nSince I was 15, I\u2019ve always gone to the doctor for a pap. They all came back normal until one in 2007. This test showed some odd cells, but my husband and I had had sex the day before. I told my doc and he said that would do it.\n\n\nPhoto: morrissey\n\nThe following year when I went back for my pap the results were abnormal. They referred me to a gynecologist to do some procedure I\u2019d never heard of and didn\u2019t tell me any thing other than my pap was abnormal.\n\nSo my husband and I arrive at the doctor the following week, and she asked if I understood what an abnormal pap smear was. I didn\u2019t. She told me it meant I had HPV \u2013 the type that can cause cervical cancer. I started crying hysterically. She asked if there was anything else \u2013 like if I\u2019d cheated, I assumed \u2013 but I had been with my husband and only husband since fall 2003. All my paps from then until 2008 had been normal. She told me that HPV can lay dormant in your system for years, although it\u2019s not common.\n\nI eventually calmed down and she performed a colposcopy \u2013 where a sliver of the cervix is cut off so the cells can be examined to see if there is any evidence of cancer \u2013 while my husband held my hand and wiped my tears. I can\u2019t quite describe it, and really, I\u2019ve blotted it out of my memory.\n\nThey told me it would take a few days to get the results back and they would call me. The gyno said that she was pretty sure that on a scale of 0 to 10 with 0 being no cancer and 10 being cancer, I would be at a 2 or 3. I remember walking to the car with my husband crying uncontrollably \u2013 I hurt, was cramping, bleeding, felt dirty and was confused as to how the fuck this was never noticed. My husband reminded me to wait till I got the results before I jumped to conclusions.\n\nA week late, the office calls. The gyno told me she had my results and she was surprised. Instead of being a 2 or 3 on the \u201ccancer scale\u201d I was a 9! Needless to say I was freaking out. I was devastated. I was scared.\n\nI was then told I needed to get a LEEP, and I decided to go to a different doctor. My husband went with me to the procedure. Basically, they take an electric wire and cut the tip of your cervix off to remove the cancer cells.\n\nIf I would have waited even a few months longer to have a pap, I may have fully had cervical cancer.\nLuckily novocaine is used before they cauterized my cervix! It really didn\u2019t hurt\u2026until the novocaine wore off. It smelled like burning flesh. My husband made jokes and kept me laughing the whole time. The gynecologist was amazing! This GYN had all my previous paperwork so she was able to know what was going on.\n\nWhen the results came back, it turned out to be 9.5 on cancer scale. If I would have waited even a few months longer to have a pap, I may have fully had cervical cancer.\n\nSome things I\u2019ve learned since all this shit happened: there are many strains of HPV, types that cause cancer and types that cause warts. Males can carry HPV and not know it, and there are no tests to check males.\n\nI may not be able to have children or carry them to term (luckily I don\u2019t want them). I think I know who gave it to me, but I\u2019m not sure. Condoms don\u2019t protect fully against HPV. And it is much more common than you think to have HPV, unfortunately.\n\nI had to have a pap done ever 6 months until I had 3 in a row that came back normal. This past December 2011 was when I was officially given a letter that I could resume yearly pap smears.\n\n- Michelle, USA","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-22","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-22","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"YourStoriesFacingStds","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-22 10:18:32","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-22 10:18:32","user":"184.22.249.255","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-22\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-22\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022YourStoriesFacingStds\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-22 10:18:32\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-22 10:18:32\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?YourStoriesFacingStds"},"MyFirstFirstDateInALongTime":{"bf_titre":"My First First Date In A Long Time","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40wbtvB Why girls on dating websites don\u0027t know how to have a conversation]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WwLjaJ Why \u201cwe need to talk\u201d should be happening in your relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CwEBL3 Living With The One You Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CsYrH2 4 Ways To Be Really Rude While Instant Messaging]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WxFee7 How Emo Updates Hurt Your Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40znReq How Straightforwardness Got Him the Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gihBO0 How to Keep Long-distance Relationships Alive]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WwrLDw How to Find Love in 2025]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3E56ESx Is Religion Important When Dating?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gfWn2V Keeping A Romantic Life As A Single Mom]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4htKojh 7 Sure-Fire Ways To Get Over A Relationship]]\n\nSo, a couple days later, I text the Chinese girl and ask her how the party went.\n\nHer response:  \u201dGreat!  But if you were there, would\u2019ve been perfect!!! :) \u201c\n\nI like that response.  We banter back in forth a bit, and then I eventually invite her to take me out in Chinatown the next day for afternoon tea, telling her she can \u201cshow me a good place\u201d.\n\nShe agrees, only to hit me with the switch 20 minutes later, \u201cwe should go to dinner instead, there are no good cafes in Chinatown!\u201d\n\nFucking shit.  When Ghetto Club pulled this same shit on me a year ago, I rescinded the offer with a \u201cnever mind\u201d that basically lead to our first ever fight \u2013 before we even went on our first date.  But, this seems a bit different, it\u2019s a Chinese girl who\u2019s only been in America less than half a year and is taking me to a restaurant in Chinatown to show me something about where she comes from, so I actually just agree it and move our meeting time to later.\n\nOn the day of the date, I show up a bit early for a change.  She\u2019s not there yet, so I walk around.  When she arrives, she texts me, \u201cHey I am right here!\u201d  So, I go back to our meeting spot and meet her.  Then, we walk to the restaurant.\n\nThere are a lot of people standing around outside, so we assume there\u2019s a wait.  We go inside to put our name down, and she handles it of course speaking to the seating staff in Mandarin.  She tells me it will be a 5 minute wait.  So, we go back outside and look at some pastries in a nearby bakery and she\u2019s explaining to me what the different treats are.\n\nSure enough in just a few short minutes, we\u2019re called to come in and sit down.  The place is rather small, so we\u2019re actually sitting right next to another couple.  I find it a bit odd and it also kind of kills any bit of sexual escalation I was planning on doing over dinner, since I have another couple right next to me.\n\nWe look at the menu and she points out things to me she thinks will be good, and I pretty much just go along with it, since I don\u2019t know much about real Chinese food.  She orders everything by talking to the waitstaff in Chinese and I have no idea what I\u2019m about to get.\n\nThere\u2019s tea on the table and she pours my glass and hers and continues to pour my tea all night long whenever its empty.\n\nWe chat a bit.  The conversation is more comfort than anything, since it\u2019s hard to attraction with her since her English isn\u2019t great.  I tell her about myself a bit and where I come from and I guess my hope in that is that minor DHV\u2019s drop in from time to time.\n\nWhen the food comes out, she tries to teach me how to use chopsticks, but I\u2019m horrible at it I would starve if I were forced to eat such away.  So, I wind up just eating the dumplings with the serving spoon until the waitstaff can bring me a fork.  That\u2019s much better.\n\nWe share a lot of laughs\u2026 at my expense\u2026. since I\u2019m so awful with the chopsticks.  She keeps trying to teach me and help me, but to no avail really.  Plus, this shit hurts my hand, it\u2019s so unnatural for me.\n\nAbout halfway through dinner she says I should use this time to practice my chopstick skills.  I tell her that I\u2019ll try them again, but she has to use her left hand.\n\nShe tries to using her left hand and drops stuff and struggles to pick stuff up, saying \u201cIt is hard with my left hand!  I\u2019m as bad as you!\u201d\n\n\u201cYeah, now you see how I feel\u2026.\u201d\n\nEventually, I kind of get the hang of it and am actually able to eat with these things, although my hand feels like a warped claw.  She keeps saying \u201cGood, good.  There you go.\u201d  Every time I successfully pick something up with the chopsticks, and then she tries to find something bigger or harder to grab and says, \u201cnow try this one.\u201d\n\nIt\u2019s quite the experience, but eventually we get full and request take home boxes.  We split the check and head out.  We walk and talk for a little bit to end the date, but for the first time in a long time, I\u2019m questioning what I should do and how\/if I should kino.\n\nShe touches my arm from time to time, usually crossing the street or something like that.  I should\u2019ve just grabbed her hand, but for some reason I was unsure about it\u2026. and I can\u2019t remember the last time I felt so unsure about grabbing a women\u2019s hand, but here I was in Chinatown with a girl straight from China and I\u2019m wondering \u201cCan I grab her hand?  Is that culturally allowed?  Is that acceptable?\u201d\n\nI have no idea what the cultural norms are.  So, I question it too much and never do it.   At the end of the date, we hug before we part ways.  I try to grab her chin and go for the kiss, but she gives me the cheek and that\u2019s it.  Again, she may just not be interested in kissing in public \u2013 I don\u2019t know.\n\nI should probably learn more about the cultural norms of dating Chinese women and then try to figure out how to fit and alpha frame into that.  Or something.\n\nAll-in-all, it\u2019s an okay date.  I could\u2019ve pushed to make it longer, extending in to a longer walk through the park or maybe to some place nearby, perhaps a pub even \u2013 although that\u2019d be a bit incongruent with my new-found soberness.   I\u2019m not sure if I\u2019m in much of a better position with her now than I was before \u2013 but at least I was able to hang out with her outside of school for a couple of hours and have a good time.\n\nIt also serves as a few firsts for me, which are nice to get out of the way:\n\nmy first date with an Asian girl and I\u2019m not even talking FOB, just my first date with an Asian girl, period.\nmy first date since my break up with Ghetto Club\nAnd, my first dinner first date\u2026.. maybe ever.\nIt may not go anywhere, but at least I learned how to use chopsticks.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-24","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-24","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"MyFirstFirstDateInALongTime","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-24 10:41:15","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-24 10:41:15","user":"184.22.249.255","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-24\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-24\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022MyFirstFirstDateInALongTime\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-24 10:41:15\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-24 10:41:15\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?MyFirstFirstDateInALongTime"},"DearTypicalFemaleYourOnlineDatingProfile":{"bf_titre":"Dear Typical Female, your online dating profile sucks!","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42AdWYF Can You Date A Younger Man?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40MAkMZ The Qualities Of A Good Make Out Buddy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40NwR0D When Guys Should Pay On A Date And Why]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42um78v Playing Games When Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hb1WRN How to Hit on Someone via Facebook]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hw6Ok3 What Not To Say On A First Date?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40Mg2Dc Why Hasn\u0027t He Called and What Should I Do About It?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40NwROb Getting Prepped for a First Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hrE6ki Defriending Your Ex On Facebook]]\n\nThis is a message I wrote to someone I found on http:\/\/www.okcupid.com who intentionally avoided writing about herself because, \u0022Where\u0027s the fun in that, you wont have anything to ask me\u0022.\nNo offense, but your profile is pretty terrible.  I have an exercise you should perform: Read your own profile as if someone else wrote it and see if you can come up with an interesting message to write to yourself.\n\nHint: It\u0027s pretty difficult to start a meaningful conversation about incubus, bananas, or hanging out with your friends every Friday.  With that in mind, the only thing that would motivate a guy to message you is how attractive they think you are.\n\nThose that think you\u0027re ugly won\u0027t write.  Those that think you\u0027re average might write.  Those that think you\u0027re attractive will write.  But one thing\u0027s for sure: No one will write because they think you\u0027ve got character or personality.  In fact, their first impression is exactly the opposite!  Ironically, it\u0027s the guys that DO message you that you want to avoid more than any other.  They\u0027re the ones guaranteed to only like you for your looks and think your personality is irrelevant.\n\nPS: I like bananas, too!  Discuss.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-01-30","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-01-30","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"DearTypicalFemaleYourOnlineDatingProfile","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-30 10:44:26","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-30 10:44:26","user":"184.22.249.184","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-01-30\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-01-30\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022DearTypicalFemaleYourOnlineDatingProfile\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-30 10:44:26\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-30 10:44:26\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?DearTypicalFemaleYourOnlineDatingProfile"},"PassingNotesInTheLibrary":{"bf_titre":"Passing Notes In The Library","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PUzibD Do You Reveal Too Much About Your Relationship?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jAI7F3 Be Yourself: The Truth About Authentic Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PTX0om Why So Many Relationships End at 90 Days]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cx3eau There really are NO BAD DATES!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hA2IY5 How The Law of Attraction Can Help You Find Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CzmynB A Dude Diner\u2019s Doctrine]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WFjjSC Soundtrax To Your Life: Pre-Date Tunes]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PX4ve9 Ms. Awesome\u2019s Advice for Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WJVo4f Bad Relationships Aren\u2019t Investments]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WFLKja How To Get A One Nite Stand Out Of Your Apartment]]\n\nI was in the library, studying for a test, when a real cute latina came and sat down across from me.  She was wearing a pink and white striped shirt.\n\nI wanted to open her, but I was in the library.  People are studying, you\u2019re not supposed to talk in the library.  What should I do?  What should I do?\n\nThen, I get an idea\u2026\n\nI reach in my bag and pull out my notepad and a pen and I actually start feeling an adrenaline rush, I find it amusing as hell that I\u2019m about to pass this girl a note like it\u2019s middle school or something, I write exactly this:\n\nYou look like a pink candy cane.  But, you are rather cute.  (I\u2019m trying to be considerate of others and not talk in the library, so I\u2019m passing you this note.)\n\nThen, I reached across and hand it to her, and watch her read it.   She reads the whole thing and busts out smiling, and looks at me.  I smile back.\n\nThen, she goes back to her work.\n\nAhhh!  She\u2019s not going to write me back?  No fun!\n\nI just go back to my work and forget about it.   I study some more, then it was almost time for me to go, so I figured, fuck it, I\u2019m giving it another shot.  I grab another piece of paper and write.\n\nI\u2019m about to leave in a second.  Are you on Facebook?  If so, write your info down and pass it back.\n\nI rip it out of my notebook and reach up to hand it to her.  This time, she smiles as I hand it.\n\nShe reads it and then whispers, \u201cNo, I\u2019m not\u2026\u201d\n\nShe\u2019s not on Facebook?  She could just be lying to me\u2026 ahh well.   I pack my shit up and get ready to head out.\n\nI unplug my latptop, put it in my bag and get up from my seat then I walk up to her and shake her hand,\n\n\u201cWhat\u2019s your name?\u201d\n\n\u201cAlejandra.\u201d\n\n\u201cAlright, nice to meet you Alejandra.  My name\u2019s [Willy Wonka].  That was fun.  Take it easy.\u201d  I shake her hand and head out.\n\nNo, I didn\u2019t close, but it actually was kind of funny.\n\nI probably made her fucking day.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-31","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-31","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"PassingNotesInTheLibrary","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-31 10:53:55","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-31 10:53:55","user":"184.22.249.184","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-31\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-31\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022PassingNotesInTheLibrary\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-31 10:53:55\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-31 10:53:55\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?PassingNotesInTheLibrary"},"IQuitAFewMonthsAfterIMetThemAnIWould":{"bf_titre":"I quit a few months after I met them an I would eventually marry.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/413MsYW Why Sex Talk On a First Date Is a Bad Idea]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/411Tqxz Is He Interested or Just An Attention Whore?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k7QQiq Never Give a Man More Credit Then He\u2019s Earned]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gLPp63 Stop Accepting Bad Behavior From Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/416nl7B When Do You Ask A Guy If Things Are Serious?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k3jAsi Is She Doomed To End Up Alone?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/412YrGe Why The \u201cHot\u201d People In This Article Aren\u2019t Worth Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ETV78F When You Get Dumped Sometimes You\u2019re To Blame, Too]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41np1uM Never Double Down On A Guy Who Can\u2019t Guarantee He\u2019ll Stick Around]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k29kRb How To Deal With The Push Pull Guy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gPGoZZ Who Has More Luck Online \u2013 Men or Women?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k3jCAq The Tell Tale Tatt]]\n\n\n\nLisa Says:\nApril 4th, 2014 at 11:29 am\nI quit a few months after I met them an I would eventually marry.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 0 Thumb down 2\n\nReply\n\n\nJim Says:\nApril 18th, 2015 at 10:28 pm\nHere\u2019s a sad revelation: I eventually got married because of an ultimatum. I had been seeing (and eventually living with) this woman for 5 years and was told it\u2019s the ring or the highway. I never felt she was the \u201clove of my life\u201d or my \u201csoul mate\u201d, but I did love her, we got along great, and I wanted children so it made sense at the time.\n\nFast-forward 8 years and I\u2019m in the middle of a divorce. Was it wrong to marry someone I wasn\u2019t \u201c100% certain\u201d was the one for me? I don\u2019t know, I ended up with 2 awesome children and although divorce is horrific I feel that I (and my kids) will be much better when it\u2019s over.\n\nWith respect to the smoking argument, my wife agreed to quit smoking when we had our first child. After the second child, 4 years later, she decided to start again because \u201cI was stressing her out and making her crazy\u201d. I hated it and pleaded with her to stop, for the sake of the kids, for her own health, for our intimacy, because of the added financial strain. I was accused of \u201ctrying to bring the kids into it\u201d.\n\nIn the end she refused to quit, saying that \u201cI knew she smoked\u201d when we got married. It definitely isn\u2019t THE reason we\u2019re getting divorced, but finding ashes strewn around the car she uses to drive our children around was definitely one big nail in the coffin. Kill yourself if you need to, I may have to suck it up because of my choices, but when you put my kids at risk you\u2019ve put yourself on shaky, and ultimately un-sound, ground.\n\nI arrive at the Lower East Side bar about an hour into the soiree. By then, everyone there had consumed at least one cocktail and had loosened up. I decided to use the knowledge I\u2019d gleaned from a Whiskey tasting a few weeks before and ordered a finger\u2019s worth of Johnnie Walker on the rocks. Normally, I\u2019d order a Merlot and nurse it, but it was a holiday weekend and I\u2019d given myself permission to slack off.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-02-19","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-02-19","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"IQuitAFewMonthsAfterIMetThemAnIWould","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-19 10:33:38","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-19 10:33:38","user":"49.145.97.180","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-02-19\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-02-19\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022IQuitAFewMonthsAfterIMetThemAnIWould\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-19 10:33:38\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-19 10:33:38\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?IQuitAFewMonthsAfterIMetThemAnIWould"},"AreHappyMarriagesAMythWhatCouplesWhoLas":{"bf_titre":"Are Happy Marriages a Myth What Couples Who Last Do Differently","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XxahaL I Travel The World. Alone.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/415f5F2 An Internal Monologue While Perusing Online Dating Matches]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QqhiWQ How To Hook Up In A Hostel \u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c 100 \u0434\u0443\u0431\u043b\u0438\u043a\u0430\u0442 \u043d\u0430 frisky ]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/414BBhs How Do You Know When You\u2019re Ready To Vacation Together?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CZqf6b How To Enjoy Travelling When You\u2019re Not On Your Honeymoon]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k3LvIK I Fantasize About Other Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i4DDVI Why It\u2019s Easier To Meet Men On Vacation \u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c 100 \u0434\u0443\u0431\u043b\u0438\u043a\u0430\u0442 \u043d\u0430 frisky ]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/417xX6l If You\u2019re 300,000 Miles Away, Don\u2019t Call Your New Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i5sunl Will Our Marriage Survive Our First Road Trip Together?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i91MKN When On Vacation ... Just Say Yes]]\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 22 Thumb down 3\n\nReply\n\n\nTBC Says:\nMay 8th, 2013 at 3:33 pm\ni would love to get the update on this!! please, fill us in so we have a romantic story or learn more about \u2018red flags\u2019\u2013either way, a learning experience.\n\nHot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 10 Thumb down 1\n\nReply\n\n\nMit Says:\nJune 21st, 2013 at 1:19 pm\nI think its sad that authors like this fill the web with garbage. This is essentially the same thing that is happening in the manosphere. Man vs Woman is going to leave us in a mess of a world. We unfortunately have meshing parts and are supposed to be in harmony with each other. There is nothing wrong with loving someone and feeling emotionally committed to another human being. I think the level of detachment, serial dating and string-short-term relationships, if anything, can be unhealthy on the human mind. It\u2019s easy to sit behind a computer and post what you think is right or wrong for someone. The sad truth is, how fucked up is our world when we go to the internet for our answers to love.\n\nHot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 9 Thumb down 6\n\nReply\n\n\nLJG Says:\nOctober 16th, 2013 at 1:35 pm\nHi there,\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-02-21","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-02-21","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"AreHappyMarriagesAMythWhatCouplesWhoLas","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-21 10:28:38","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-21 10:28:38","user":"49.145.97.180","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-02-21\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-02-21\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022AreHappyMarriagesAMythWhatCouplesWhoLas\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-21 10:28:38\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-21 10:28:38\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?AreHappyMarriagesAMythWhatCouplesWhoLas"},"TheFlawsInMyMarriage":{"bf_titre":"the flaws in my marriage.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3D2ANld The Top 10 White Lies People Tell In Online Dating Profiles]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41vh1rX Things I Wish I Knew About Dating When I Was 22]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iep6qp 8 Reasons You\u2019re Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ig4Bth Let\u2019s Talk About Negging]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gVXpl6 What Are Your Pre-Date Nerves?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41wln26 10 Things You Should Never Say To A Man In Bed]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3F5nNM3 8 Things Men Want Women To Do In Bed]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41uRW04 9 Things I Dread About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gVqFZq I Wasn\u2019t Jewish Enough]]\n\nI\u2019m not going to talk morality as this is a subjective issue. I know that if my wife found out it would devastate her. So I am careful. Extremely careful. My relationships are with married women who also have much to lose so discretion is mutually advantageous. I draw the line at friends or anyone likely to be in our social circle. This matters because it dramatically reduces the chances of my being caught and should I be caught would dramatically reduce the social impact upon my wife. I love her and don\u2019t want her to feel the devastation that knowledge of my infidelity would bring. Some may find this self-serving and they may be right. I know that my kids have a loving family home and are growing up so proficient at life it is at times embarrassing and I would do everything for them. The truth is my infidelity ensures this situation continues. Without it I would be amplifying the stresses that my marriage (and I don\u2019t think I\u2019m alone here\u2026) has with possibly terminal consequences for it and the stability and love that my kids so clearly thrive on.\n\nSo I am clearly vulnerable to the accusation that all this does is reveal the flaws in my marriage. That may be so, but it remains just an accusation. I know and see the reality and my infidelity makes me a better husband and father despite the paradox that many moralists would see in this statement.\n\nThanks for reading.\n\nAnon6 years agoReply\nAnother well thought out and well written comment on this exceptionally interesting board. May I ask what is the specialist website you\u2019re referring to? Ashley Madison (which I find highly suspect)? Or another?\n\nI\u2019m in a very similar situation although I have had affairs with single women whom I knew were trustworthy. The key was letting them know that I had no interest in leaving my wife to prevent them from getting ideas in their heads about future marriage. Single women are also safer because I need not worry about (potentially dangerous) jealous husbands. But there is no question that other married people is a much safer approach. And I fully believe that your affairs make your marriage a better and happier one. If I couldn\u2019t have something discreet and fun on the side there is simply no way I could stay in my marriage.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-02-25","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-02-25","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheFlawsInMyMarriage","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-25 10:23:58","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-25 10:23:58","user":"49.145.97.180","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-02-25\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-02-25\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheFlawsInMyMarriage\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-25 10:23:58\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-25 10:23:58\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?TheFlawsInMyMarriage"},"RedFlagsToWatchForInOnlineDating":{"bf_titre":"Red Flags to Watch for in Online Dating","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QWSfe6 We\u2019re All Slutty For The Right Guy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QXZa6L Dear Men: This Is Why Loyalty Is So Important To Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XLbF9B How Do You Avoid Dating a Liberal\/Conservative?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41EVtI7 Are You Looking For Fast Love Too?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FhnSwB Should You Fake an Active Lifestyle for Love?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Ffy1tE When a Relationship Feels Like a Secret Mission]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41HLdPc Pushing Through It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bIFWvv Embracing The Unexpected Path Of Singlehood]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DzQ6SD Why Is It So Hard to Believe Someone Might Stay?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XDyxI4 Am I Crazy Or Is He A Hot Mess?]]\n\nThe most insidious and gross way that this manifests itself is when a guy would talk on and on about feminist politics and sexual liberation in order to get laid \u2014 and this happened all the time. It\u2019s really difficult to see it coming because at first, it\u2019s easy to get caught up in the excitement of a man really knowing his literature and being knowledgeable about women\u2019s issues in politics and culture. It makes you feel respected. But it\u2019s a bait-and-switch. I got hoodwinked this way \u2014 a guy I was dating was very upfront about being \u201cpoly,\u201d which I was open to if things went somewhere. But as time went on, it became clear that the personal, emotional respect accorded to partners in real polyamorous relationships was missing from him. In other words, he wasn\u2019t looking for a polyamorous relationship, he was looking for a bunch of booty calls. In other other words, he lied to get laid. Gross.\n\nYou know what\u2019s actually cool to me? Guys who don\u2019t feel the need to be patted on the back for being feminists, who do it solely because they think it\u2019s right, who don\u2019t push their version of feminism on women. Guys who don\u2019t co-opt the conversation or showboat their opinions. There are plenty of those guys out there, doing the hard work with us \u2014 and they deserve way more credit than Feminist Frank is getting.\n\nLadies, I\u2019m sure you have experienced this before. You are having a perfectly good flirtation session with a perfectly hot guy when all of a sudden \u2026 he ruins everything. The other night, I was at a party, talking with a guy I found extremely attractive and cool. We were wrapping up the conversation, about to exchange contact info, when he made a serious misstep. He reached down underneath his chair and pulled out a giant bicycle helmet and PUT IT ON. He looked so ridiculous that I couldn\u2019t take him seriously. I fully support bicycle riding, especially with the proper safety precautions, but couldn\u2019t he have waited until we parted ways to put the stupid thing on? Sigh. Foiled by a bicycle helmet. After the jump some more flirtation killers sure to spoil a good vibe. Add yours in the comments.\n\nBoogers. Snot or dangling boogers are just too hard for me to ignore. Perhaps I am immature. I just can\u2019t.\nImproper use of basic grammar. I ain\u2019t really feelin\u2019 that.\nAnnoying texts. If a flirtation moves to text, sentiments such as \u201cC U L8R\u201d or the excessive use of emoticons kills any glimmer of hope. We are no longer in middle school.\nThe offering of illegal substances. I don\u2019t take drugs from strangers and I don\u2019t date strangers who offer me drugs. Any questions?\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-11","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-11","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"RedFlagsToWatchForInOnlineDating","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-11 17:30:36","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-11 17:30:36","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-11\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-11\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022RedFlagsToWatchForInOnlineDating\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-11 17:30:36\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-11 17:30:36\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?RedFlagsToWatchForInOnlineDating"},"CanYouEverBeAPriorityWhenYoureDatingA":{"bf_titre":"Can You Ever Be a Priority When You\u2019re Dating a Single Parent","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DGDSYk Is He Assertive or Just Angry?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bPGeAK Why I\u2019m Done Playing by Traditional Dating Rules]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iFx6kI Modern Romance: The New Dating Rules]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4itFjbF Can You Spot the Four Types of Men Out There?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FECPbT What to Do When a Friendship Becomes Toxic]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4itS7yR How to Take Advantage of Being Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bPGeRg He Acted Like He Was Still Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kRzWVl Following My Dream Nearly Cost Me My Marriage]]\n\n\nAnd I too agree that Lex is rad.\n\nReply\n\nLex\nMarch 22, 2011 at 7:35 am #\nThanks so much! You guys are makin\u2019 me blush!\n\nSince when did being female, educated, and financially independent become mutually exclusive with men paying for our dinner?? No one here has tried to assert that us single women want to be treated equally as men in the dating arena. (In the workplace, when it comes to salary for the same job\/skills\/effort \u2013 okay yes we do and we can have that debate at another time.) Here, we are talking about dating, and if you try and play the \u201cequality\u201d argument you are going to get owned. There is no such thing as equality in dating, pretty sure we\u2019d all be single. You men if anything should be grateful for just how easy it is for you these days. And if you\u2019re bold enough to bitch about spending $ on your date \u2013 then YOU my friend are the problem and you are most certainly NOT worth dating.\nOh and what is this myth about girls getting guys to take them out on dates for the free dinner!? I do not know ONE SINGLE woman that would do that. I know I sure as hell am not going suffer through a tedious dinner date w\/ a guy I don\u2019t like. I have a LIFE\u2026\n\nReply\n\nprincesabin\nMarch 22, 2011 at 6:03 pm #\nA lot of my friends have experienced this. One of my friends told me her boss (now a high powered attorney) fed herself through law school going on dates.\n\nAnd I\u2019ve definitely gotten that impression from some of the girls I\u2019ve gone out with.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-03-14","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-03-14","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"CanYouEverBeAPriorityWhenYoureDatingA","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-14 16:29:08","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-14 16:29:08","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-03-14\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-03-14\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022CanYouEverBeAPriorityWhenYoureDatingA\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-14 16:29:08\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-14 16:29:08\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?CanYouEverBeAPriorityWhenYoureDatingA"},"FindYourNextMommyAndWatchForYourNextPa":{"bf_titre":"find your next mommy and watch for your next partner.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FzAU8H He Cheats on Me During Business Trips]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybJUa He Cheated with a Woman from the Gym]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybKrc He Dotes On His Son and Ignores Me]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kUHFSz He Didn\u0027t Know How to Listen to Her]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43N1QM8 He Flirts Too Much]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Dx1wGV Marriage Advice: 13 Lessons]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XV0kDU Separate Vacations Don\u2019t Have to Mean Divorce]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DyQ39M Are Soul Mates Fact or Fiction?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybNTU Love vs. Parenthood: When the Perfect Partner Doesn\u2019t Want Kids]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kUHHKb Caring for Dad Is Destroying My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DJU37i First Date: Who Pays and What It Really Means]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Dv3Kqg Dating a Dad: When You Like Him But Not His Kid]]\n\n\nThe funny part is he now makes more money than I do and I still don\u2019t let him pay for things. I want to contribute too. And I do because he helped establish our mutually respectful relationship right from the start.\n\nCali, I think you were being respectful- just as this douche should have done with you. You just got done paying for a $125 meal. The next meal should have been on him- no question. He\u2019s not good enough for you and neither is any man who argues your point. You deserve to feel taken care of- loved, safe and respected- while still feeling self empowered and strong.\n\nIt\u2019s easy guys. Seriously. Grow a pair and stop trying to find your next mommy and watch for your next partner.\n\nxo\n\nReply\n\nCali Bradshaw\nMarch 22, 2011 at 5:04 am #\nDear Miss RB \u2013 Thanks very much for your comment. So great to hear the perspective of someone who is happily married! I think your comment explains the entire situation perfectly. The truth is, when a guy really likes you (like enough to one day marry you) he WANTS to take care of you. All the other bullshit stops mattering. Whether he has the money, whether he thinks it is an unfair\/outdated rule \u2013 none of it matters. A guy who really likes you, wants to take care of you AND the result is a very happy girl. Like I want to spend the rest of my life with you happy. Thanks so much for your comment and your support.\n\n-Cali\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-17","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-17","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FindYourNextMommyAndWatchForYourNextPa","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-17 16:53:17","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-17 16:53:18","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-17\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-17\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FindYourNextMommyAndWatchForYourNextPa\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-17 16:53:17\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-17 16:53:18\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?FindYourNextMommyAndWatchForYourNextPa"},"WhenYourMarriageFeelsLonelyRebuildingInt":{"bf_titre":"When Your Marriage Feels Lonely: Rebuilding Intimacy and Connection.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DzDL0U He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hiX8sN He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DJhz4p He Lost Interest in Our Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hkeh5t Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ie35sj He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I\u0027m Sick of It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DPhuME Commitment Jitters]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVkF Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4heaIh2 Bi Bi Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42ejPd6 Dealing With Your Partner\u2019s Bedroom Confessions]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DL0vLm Can His Squalor Be Squelched?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43Zhkwy Asunder Down Under]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iaTwKD Conquering Long Distance Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVBb Coveting a Coworker]]\n\nSorry\u2026. but having a pet, a house, a job, long-term friendships, and financial independence\u2026ONLY shows that one is capable of committing to: an animal, house\/mortgage, an employer, friends and their bank account. None of which means they will be a good boyfriend\/husband or even be willing to take on that role at all.\n\nThink about it: we\u2019ve all known a ton of guys who fit this profile: mid-30s, athletic (has a dog that he goes running with), successful man, driven at his job (so he doesn\u2019t job-hop) and makes good money (doesn\u2019t need parental help) and invests that into the purchase of an apt\/coop\/condo\/house, has the same friends that he met in high school and his college fraternity\u2026has a different girl every night from when he is 25 until\u2026as long as he still looks hot. He has had little to no relationships and has to desire to change that. But he hits every point on your list (as for the sycophants and emotional maturity, no one can know that until they get to know them but on paper he hits all your points)\n\nWe\u2019ve all known this guy, probably at least 100 of them. And in NYC they are a dime a dozen. I\u2019d almost venture to say that they are more the norm than not (although owning is tough but the same rental apt for 10 yrs is as good as owning in NYC as far as showing commitment\u2026not bailing every time they raise the rent).\n\nI am not saying that the guy who commits is a great guy or even a good guy. He could have numerous multi-year relationships under his belt but still be a shitbag and an awful, cheating, abusive boyfriend. Or maybe he\u2019s just a lame, mediocre, ambivalent guy who tends to take his women for granted. Or maybe he\u2019s actually a great boyfriend.\n\nHowever, if all we are judging is one\u2019s ability to commit (not their likelihood of being a good partner), then Mr. Shitbag does qualify as being more likely to commit. Although, any sane woman should run from him away as fast as she can.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-03-18","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-03-18","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhenYourMarriageFeelsLonelyRebuildingInt","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-18 17:25:46","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-18 17:25:47","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-03-18\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-03-18\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhenYourMarriageFeelsLonelyRebuildingInt\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-18 17:25:46\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-18 17:25:47\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?WhenYourMarriageFeelsLonelyRebuildingInt"},"WhiteLies":{"bf_titre":"White Lies","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bCTPeO He Went to War and Came Back a Changed Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XYmpBu Unmasking Hidden Unhappiness in Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hmImRV Workaholic Heartbreak: When Success Costs Your Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kACG9E Recession Realities: When Financial Stress Tests a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgepYW When Unemployment Tests Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RhVRaJ Movies That All Women Should See To Understand Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y0Q64V Love Lies and Responsibility]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DTY35d The Dating Mishaps of the Ladies of Love Twenty]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RoJzxb The Black Male Preference Privilege]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RjLaV4 Anatomy of a Great (Reality) Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DQedfU Your Rear End or Your Pride]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y24B8F Why Splitting Costs Isn\u0027t Splitting Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgxeLs (Broken) Laws of Attraction ]]\n\nI think that we look back on relationships, ex\u2019s, and lovers with a distorted lens. So frequently, at least for my friends and me, we\u2019ll leave unhappy relationships only to look back and say \u201cHe really wasn\u2019t that bad. He had his sweet moments when he did special little things.\u201d When more often than not those special little things (flowers, cards, small gifts) were fabrications told to our friends to justify being with somebody who preferred gaming, drinking, and time with friends over spending time with you. White lies told to friends so they didn\u2019t tell us to leave him for being no good for us. Why didn\u2019t we want to leave him? Simple, we\u2019d already told ourselves a thousand little lies to make him our \u201cdream man\u201d and we couldn\u2019t possibly leave a man with so much potential! (Read previous blog: \u201cfalling in love with potential)\n\nThis projecting doesn\u2019t just end with men though. Sometimes a woman will lie to herself about how appreciated she is at work. Inside we know that we aren\u2019t being paid enough but if anyone asks we will tell them, \u201cOh, they know they would be lost without me.\u201d In truth, they might be lost without you, but they are still blindly ignorant of this fact.\n\nThere are so many aspects that we will lie to ourselves and others about. We will pretend to be in a better place financially before admitting to others that we may not be able to afford the same things as them. We will talk up our important at work, within relationships, etc to give us more worth. These small exaggerations are still lies. They make us feel better about things we may have insecurities about. Sometimes we lie to make ourselves sound more exciting to others, maybe add some titillating details to a night that didn\u2019t actual occur. They start out so innocent, but they have a way of getting away from us.\n\nI sometimes realize I\u2019m doing this, and sometimes I don\u2019t. I don\u2019t know why I feel the need to exaggerate things\u2026things with no real meaning. I\u2019m not making up that instead of saying, \u201cI had a great night tonight, Jewels.\u201d He really said, \u201cThis was the best night of my life and I think I might be in love with you.\u201d I don\u2019t go overboard with things\u2026but that\u2019s not the point\u2026why do I do this at all!?\n\n\n\u201cThe most common lie is that which one lies to himself; lying to others is relatively an exception.\u201d Friedrich Nietzsche\n\nA friend of mine thinks it\u2019s because I\u2019m white and all white people lie. I\u2019m not sure how valid this is. Maybe it has something to do with having such an awesome imagination that I feel guilty not using it. Either way\u2026I\u2019m not sure that I\u2019m hurting anyone\u2026except maybe myself. You are probably reading this now wondering how honest I have been while writing this, and previous, blog entries. I promise you that I have not lied, exaggerated, or fabricated any of my blogs. This is meant to be an honest and frank journal for myself and lying here would be totally counterproductive. So rest easy, Reader, and know that what you read here is nothing more than the honest and often random ramblings of a woman finding her way in the world.\n\nSo I guess my question to you is: Do you do this too? Have you stopped short when telling a story when you realized \u201cWhy did I just say that? That didn\u2019t actually happen!?\u201d Have you found yourself in a tangle of little lies that added up? Do you lie to yourself about your job, relationship, and your own feelings? It\u2019s not an easy thing to realize\u2026that even if my lies hurt nobody\u2026I\u2019m still a liar. Ugh\u2026how awful!","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-20","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-20","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhiteLies","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-20 17:43:16","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-20 17:43:16","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-20\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-20\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhiteLies\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-20 17:43:16\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-20 17:43:16\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?WhiteLies"},"SecondAttemptAtAHalfAssedWeekendPost":{"bf_titre":"Second Attempt at a Half Assed Weekend Post","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41V0MU7 Surviving a Long-Term Affair and Saving a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iwlwbV Transforming Communication and Parenting in a Troubled Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c037lm Healing a Marriage by Confronting Insecurities and Building Trust]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kSx1Mh Religious Differences and Strengthening Marriage Bonds]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUogNH The Affection Gap: Bridging Emotional Distance in a Long-Term Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUohkJ Workplace Dating Detours]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUohRL When Blind Dates Go Wrong]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUoiFj Comfort Vs. Fulfillment In Modern Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41R8Y7P Demanding Respect and Openness in a Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bVNmvE Get Outta My Dating Pool]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iFRbaL Seeking Clarity and Connection in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4izaKBE Gym Flirting 101]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Yixlv Finding Balance in Love After Loss]]\n\nSo my last post wasn\u0027t as Half Assed as I\u0027d like it to be...so I am doing another one. I know...I know...it negates the half assed-ness of it all. I\u0027m a perfectionist...and I feel like I could do a lesser post...so back off!\n\nLast night I was driving to my friends house and I was listening to my Josh Groban Christmas album on my ipod (plugged into my AUX...not with my ear pods in) and singing away while I sat in some traffic. Then a song I hadn\u0027t heard came on and I cried. I mean...full fledged tears running down my cheeks and I tried to make sure my makeup didn\u0027t smudge (cause I\u0027m girlie like that). I would be okay then the refrain hit and I cried again. I got to the hiccuping stage and everything. I know-I\u0027m special-still something about this song just hit a chord with me.\n\nI was listening to the lyrics and I swear to you I thought, \u0022Rita would love this song. This song is going to make her cry too.\u0022 So I decided to share it. I\u0027m dedicating this song to lovely Rita over at The Adventures of Cinderita. I know you are having a rough time right now and that you don\u0027t need cheering. I get that but all the same I just know that this song will mean to you what it means to me. Enjoy it.\n\n\n\nNow that I am crying all over again it is time for me to go and get some wrapping done. I hope everyone had\/is having a wonderful weekend. I also have to send a big congrats out to Simple Dude for the success of his half assed weekend posts! :-)","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-03-24","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-03-24","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SecondAttemptAtAHalfAssedWeekendPost","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-24 17:50:38","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-24 17:50:38","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-03-24\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-03-24\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SecondAttemptAtAHalfAssedWeekendPost\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-24 17:50:38\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-24 17:50:38\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?SecondAttemptAtAHalfAssedWeekendPost"},"MsFadingFailure":{"bf_titre":"Ms. Fading Failure","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j6gN0p How a Meddling Mother Nearly Ruined My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iU3Cj0 How We Rebuilt Our Marriage Through Therapy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Z9CjH Saving a Marriage After an Affair]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Z9DUN Can Marriage Survive Infidelity?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j5u3lZ Is Your Marriage a Partnership or a Prison?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4l6wdng Keep Him From Walking Out That Door]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4unBq Managing Expectations in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4upcw Why I Believe In Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j21Jkq Dating Advice From Happily Married Couples]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4dFSB The Man or the Money]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/421UmCz Walk Away From Parental Control in Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iZu4rt When You\u2019re Stuck in the \u201cCasual Dating\u201d Zone]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j3RWKI A Necessary Courtesy or Just Overkill in Online Dating?]]\n\nOh boy.  \u201cThe Fade.\u201d\n\nThe infamous Fade has been a staple of human dating rituals since\u2026 gosh, it doesn\u2019t really matter.  You know what I\u2019m talking about.  Boy meets girl.  Boy goes on date(s) with girl.  Boy realizes that he is not into girl.  Boy doesn\u2019t call girl.  Girl may attempt contact with boy.  Boy ignores and fades into nothing.  Girl eats caramels and moves on.  The end.\n\n\nwww.nataliedee.com\n\nI\u2019ve been faded many a time in my life.  I\u2019ve even done some fading myself.  The Fade is an established social convention indicating at least one party\u2019s lack of interest in the other.\n\nHowever, I\u2019m not sure that all Parisian men are as familiar with the Fade as we are in the anglophone dating world.\n\nI have attempted, on multiple occasions, to fade my way out of undesirable entanglements here.  According to past experiences on American soil, this should have gone off without a hitch.\n\nBut, of course, upon arrival in Paris, hitches abounded, and the most illustrative example is someone to whom I refer as Mr. Gym Stalker.\n\n* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *\n\nMr. Gym Stalker worked the front desk at my gym.  While I didn\u2019t pay much attention to the front desk staff at the time, my gym buddy, the Irish Parisienne, pointed out to me that Mr. Gym Stalker had developed a little crush on me.\n\nI laughed it off and just continued along my merry little way.\n\nBut one day, as I was on my way out, he summoned me over and told me that he needed to ask me about something.\n\nMr. G.S. : \u201cI noticed that you don\u2019t come here as often as you used to.\u201d\n\nMan-shopper : \u201cYeah, I moved.  I only work out here if I\u2019m in the neighborhood.  I go to a different location now.\u201d\n\nMr. G.S. : \u201cHere\u2019s the thing.  I\u2019ve been working here for two years now, and I can\u2019t work out here anymore because people recognize me while I\u2019m working out, assume that I\u2019m on duty, and bother me.\u201d\n\nMan-shopper : \u201cUhhh, okay\u2026.\u201d\n\nMr. G.S. : \u201cIt\u2019s really difficult for me to motivate myself to work out at other locations, so I was wondering if you\u2019d like to work out sometime at the location that you go to now.  Planning to meet up with people motivates me more than if I were to just go by myself.\u201d\n\n\nwww.nataliedee.com\n\nMan-shopper : \u201cOh, ok, gym buddies are cool.  Well, I go to spin class, you\u2019re welcome to join me.\u201d\n\nAnd I thought that\u2019d be it.  I didn\u2019t think that it would be a big deal, since I didn\u2019t intend on returning to this gym location anymore.  My move was finally official, and it was no longer convenient for me to trek out there.  So, in my mind, this wasn\u2019t a date, and I didn\u2019t give him my number.  This was just a\u2026 a nothing.\n\nBut then the phone calls started.\n\nI had that gym\u2019s phone number programmed into my phone, and I noticed that the gym would be calling me everyday, but nobody ever left a message.  I didn\u2019t bother call back, as I figured that if the gym had official business with me, they\u2019d leave a message.\n\nAfter a few weeks of this, I began to get lots of calls from a mobile number that I didn\u2019t recognize, and sometimes from a masked phone number.  Again, I don\u2019t answer or return calls unless I know the number or if I\u2019m expecting a call.  These calls were really starting to concern me, as they would occur at least several times per day, sometimes as late as 11 at night.\n\nI decided to approach this matter as if the caller were an undesirable and clueless suitor.  I figured, the Fade should work eventually, right?  I\u2019ll just sit tight and be unresponsive until he gets the point and goes away.\n\nA couple of months later of these persistent phone calls, I began to think that my phone was possessed.  Who the hell would keep calling me like this without leaving a message??\n\n\nwww.nataliedee.com\n\nI lived in fear of my phone.\n\nI turned off its ringer.\n\nOne fateful day \u2014 my birthday, actually \u2014 I get a text message from the mystery mobile number.\n\n\u201cHi, I just wanted to wish you a happy 27th birthday.  All the best, Mr. G.C.\u201d\n\nSo let\u2019s recap the horribleness of this situation:\n\nMr. G.C. pulled my mobile number from the gym\u2019s client files and proceeded to harass me for months without leaving a voicemail.\n\nMr. G.C. then pulled MY BIRTHDAY from my file and used the number acquired by inappropriate channels in order to harass me further.\n\nMy Fade failed miserably.\n\nIt had nothing to do with my technique.  It is physically impossible to botch a Fade.  Non-response is the easiest cop-out thing to do in the world.\n\nBut some creeptastic, stalkerish, dodgy Parisian men simply refuse to be Faded.\n\nHowever, this is not to say that the Fade doesn\u2019t have its uses on the Parisian scene.  Even if the Fade fails miserably as a suitor-ditching technique, it is, however, a great way to determine whether one needs to consider taking out a restraining order.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-03-26","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-03-26","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"MsFadingFailure","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-26 17:31:49","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-26 17:31:49","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-03-26\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-03-26\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022MsFadingFailure\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-26 17:31:49\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-26 17:31:49\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?MsFadingFailure"},"OhYouCanCookImInLoveWithYou":{"bf_titre":"Oh you can cook, I\u2019m in love with you","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j71lkI Marriage vs. Addiction: Winning the Battle for Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y176Ig Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RlpxUo Holding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QRZeFf The Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DWXmIn Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DUscBy He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn\u2019t He Call?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j5nIH7 Online Dating Isn\u2019t Desperation]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iRfgeP Changing Your Dating Approach]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c3yRWJ Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iXYkD2 Dating Someone With Debt]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41JHmCI Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Xw23iW The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DTawpM How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray]]\n\n\nlol awesome. Love it. You don\u2019t have to be logical at all with your reasons for why you break up with her\u2026the point is that you give ANY reason, just like falling in love with her. \u201cOh you can cook, I\u2019m in love with you. What are those shoes you\u2019re wearing? Black shoes? No I hate black shoes, we\u2019re broken up.\u201d Like, it can be just complete arbitrary illogical nonsense\u2026that\u2019s all you self-amusing and it keeps her going \u201comg wtf is with this guy lol I can\u2019t keep up!! He\u2019s crazy lol!!\u201d\n\nBut step back and look at that logically, what\u2019s going on there? You\u2019re leading the convo, you\u2019re setting the frame, and she\u2019s playing catch-up to you leading the interaction.\n\nCompare that to \u201cDo you like Band Blah? Oh that\u2019s cool, me too\u2026so umm what about Band Durr? Oh you like them? I\u2019m not a big fan, I mean they\u2019re okay but I think their older songs were better\u2026like do you know this one song\u2013\u201d zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz\u2026\n\nWhich interaction is more fun and pushing the girl through more of an emotional rollercoaster, you know?\n\n\u201cAfter a few seconds, I\u2019m like \u2018remember that time we broke up. listen, I didn\u2019t mean all of that. You just make me really mad sometimes.\u2019\u201d\n\nFucking lol. This is awesome. I\u2019m probably going to steal it. It reminds me of Matt Damon at the end of this set of clips from Entourage:\n\nWhere he\u2019s crying and then apologizing lol Like it\u2019s such a classic stereotype thing that it\u2019s hilarious to see, let alone be the recipient of, from someone you\u2019ve literally just met for the first time a few minutes ago, you know? Great stuff.\n\n\u201cAnd she\u2019s like \u2018oh, okay\u2026well so are we back together?\u2019\u201d\n\nAnd now you guys are roleplaying being a couple. :) This is all good stuff in terms of flirting in general. This isn\u2019t gay friend zone supplicating to her shit. This chick might not fuck you or anything, but this is a solid interaction and she\u2019s completely in your frame.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"OhYouCanCookImInLoveWithYou","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:50:15","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:50:15","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022OhYouCanCookImInLoveWithYou\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 17:50:15\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 17:50:15\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?OhYouCanCookImInLoveWithYou"},"AndInTheLead":{"bf_titre":"And in the lead...","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Rwg1Og My Dead First Husband Is Haunting My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hRj9z3 My Husband Is Ashamed of Me]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QZXgTo My Husband Barely Talks to Me Anymore \u2014 So I Cheated on Him]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RsgcKy My Husband Is a Big Bore]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Rwg5xu My Husband is a Compulsive Gambler]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QV00kT My Husband Is Depressed]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RvOuMW When Your Boyfriend Flirts Too Much]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iKwaM9 When \u0022Taking It Slow\u0022 Feels Like a Red Flag]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jiPxvP The Ethics Of Breaking Up With A Sick Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Yf5AlZ State of the Relationship Union]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DZc5CI Widowed and Dating: Navigating Sympathy and Honesty]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i1TgwB Love vs. Security: Can You Build a Future Without That \u2018Spark\u2019?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iJ2FdA What Really Counts as Cheating?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jgDpLK Polyamory Dating or Just Playing?]]\n\nThings are feeling really good with Capt Awesome -- \u0022really good\u0022, as in, I think I\u0027m not going to date anyone else at the moment. I just can\u0027t get to know other guys when I really want to get to know just one guy in particular.\n\nThis was pretty evident on my date with Smooch the other night. I warned him earlier in the day that I was getting over a cold -- this was somewhat true (I seem to have had a mild cold for the past few weeks) -- but I mainly wanted to establish that this would be a relatively nookie-free night. (note: not sure what YOUR definition is of \u0022nookie\u0022 -- in this case, I\u0027m just referring to kissing)\n\nI\u0027m sure he sensed something was different -- it just wasn\u0027t as comfortable and easy as it had been on our two previous dates. Who knows - things might have been different if we had carried on dating consistently after our first date in the end of August. But it just is how it is. So.\n\nCapt Awesome and I have been emailing and texting every day. We have a fabulous, long date planned for tomorrow... and he has already invited me to a party next week.\n\nAND... I did a bit of cybersnooping, and discovered two things:\n1. he took down his Jdate profile -- wow!\n2. we\u0027re not Facebook friends, but he has no privacy settings up, which means I can read his wall, check out his pics, etc even though we\u0027re not FB \u0022friends\u0022. In one status update, he wrote that he was having a particularly good week -- when a friend inquired about that, he responded that work was going well and he\u0027d \u0022met a new girl\u0022.\n\nI\u0027m just feeling giddy and smiley about him right now. And if I hear from Smooch again? I\u0027m not sure. Do I tell him that I\u0027ve met someone? (perhaps a bit premature) Or do I tell him that work \/ life is too busy right now, and maybe we can touch base in a few weeks? Hm. Will cross that bridge when I get to it. (interesting sidenote: it just happens that Smooch wrote to one of my friends on Jdate this week -- of course, he has no idea that she\u0027s my friend. Coincidence.)","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-04-02","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-04-02","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"AndInTheLead","date_creation_fiche":"2025-04-02 15:28:37","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-04-02 15:28:37","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-04-02\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-04-02\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022AndInTheLead\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-04-02 15:28:37\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-04-02 15:28:37\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?AndInTheLead"},"SundayWeighInAndUmMyBoyfriend":{"bf_titre":"Sunday weigh-in... and um, my \u0022boyfriend\u0022 (???)","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FVZIYL There\u2019s No Such Thing as a \u201cGood\u201d or \u201cBad\u201d Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42gjkht A Married Man Needs Only 3 Things From His Wife]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42jsSIT I Am Not The Caretaker of My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i743Wl 10 Guilty Pleasures For Couples]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/425v9bN The Man Behind How I Have It All]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jgcuPW 14 Ways Having Kids Affects Your Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jpgSMN Love Rewards the Brave]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i6g1iQ The Book That Changed the Way I Look at Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4coeB2b When Divorce Runs in the Family]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4cmPMDP The Silence That Can Save Your Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jntAeQ Is It Ever OK to Lie to Your Spouse?]]\n\nGood news: I managed to lose 2.4 lbs this past week, bringing me back to my most recent low weight of 132.8 \u2013 big celebration! (confirms that last week\u2019s gain was indeed most likely due to PMS \u2013 thanks for all your knowing words of support!).\n\nNow \u2013 got to keep this loss moving along. 130 is a big hurdle I haven\u2019t crossed in years, so that\u2019s my current goal \u2013 to jump that hurdle!\n\nIt\u2019s been a fun weekend, with lots of TC time. We enjoyed a rather elegant dinner out last night, with both of us drinking a bit too much \u2013 wine pairings can be fun, but dangerous! But WOW, did he look dapper, all dressed up!\n\nTowards the end of the night, in a slightly inebriated state, I asked TC how I should introduce him today \u2013 I was bringing him to an event where he was likely to meet some of my friends. At first he joked, what about \u201cgentleman caller\u201d? Or \u201clov-ah\u201d \u2013 but you have to say it like that, \u201cLOV-AH\u201d! (yes, he\u0027s the joking type) He soon admitted that recently, in conversations with some of his friends, it felt natural for him to refer to me as his \u201cgirlfriend\u201d, since we\u2019ve already established that we\u2019re only dating one another, and he\u2019s \u201cenjoying the progression of the relationship\u201d.\n\nAs far as that last line -- at least I THINK that\u0027s what he said! I know he used the word \u201crelationship\u201d, and even in the moment, I found myself wishing I had a tape recorder so I could remember exactly what he was saying. Damn wine, doing fuzzy things to the memory!\n\nToday at the event, when the moment came for me to introduce him to a group of friends (acquaintances, really), I quickly said, \u201cThis is my boyfriend, [TC]\u201d. (I had to say it quickly, for fear that I\u0027d choke on the words!) I\u2019m not sure how much he remembered of last night\u2019s conversation, but he didn\u2019t seem at all fazed by the intro. I\u2019m not sure if I\u2019m really ready to jump into full \u201cboyfriend \/ girlfriend\u201d jargon (we\u2019ve only been dating a little over a month), but I think if we ease into it like a warm bath, that will be the most natural way to go.\n\nIt\u2019s been in the back of my mind: when \/ how to tell him about the blog? This blog has been an amazing source of catharsis for me these past 10 months \u2013 when I was having my most depressing and frustrating dating experiences, I found out through reader comments (and other bloggers) that I\u2019m certainly not alone in these feelings. And I even made a Real Live Friend though our blogs, Cute Jewess.\n\nI think I\u2019ll know when the time is right \u2013 and it\u2019s not just yet. TC is a pretty open-minded and laid-back guy (two of the many things I like about him)\u2026 and I sense that he\u2019ll be nonplussed when I tell him about the blog. Eventually.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-04-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-04-10","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SundayWeighInAndUmMyBoyfriend","date_creation_fiche":"2025-04-10 17:25:31","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-04-10 17:25:31","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-04-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-04-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SundayWeighInAndUmMyBoyfriend\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-04-10 17:25:31\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-04-10 17:25:31\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/wiki.ctc-42.org\/?SundayWeighInAndUmMyBoyfriend"},"LaVidaVegas":{"bf_titre":"La Vida Vegas","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4icCU4f We Lived Separate Lives]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgT69H We Were Living Like Roommates]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4igvRYq The Real Reason You Haven\u0027t Found Your Perfect Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i96MOV Why Aren\u0027t You Married? 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This is what I get for taking advice.\nEven after the debacle of drunkenness that was Thursday night\/Friday morning, I was oddly not slowed down in my drinking at all. Not once on this entire trip did I get a hangover. And after that night I did not throw up again. I believe my liver is actually angry now because I haven\u2019t had a single drink since I got back. I should look into solving that.\nFolks, there was a whole lot more booze. QTMama and I would go out at night and not get home until it was light again the next morning. Vegas will forever be partying all night and endless alcohol in my mind. And I fully intend to prove that if\/when I ever go back.\nAnd here\u2019s the last thing. On Sunday, QTMama and I got ready to go back home. We packed and chatted and laughed and generally tried to ignore the fact that we were preparing to leave. I feel safe speaking for her for just a moment to say that we both had an absolutely amazing time. And not just because of Vegas baby! And not just because of the booze. We both made a fast and strong friendship that weekend. 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